Thursday, March 5, 2015
Book Review: Motivate Your Child
By Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN
Thomas Nelson, 2015
English, 288 pgs
Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN, teach parents how to help children form the internal strength they'll need every day as they grow older.
Parents have the greatest influence on their children's character. Mom or Dad's words, choices, actions, and reactions mold a child's view of almost everything. It can be a terrifying thought. But there is hope.
Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanna Miller have spent years helping parents cultivate a healthy conscience and a vibrant faith in their kids. Motivate Your Child is a straightforward guide to doing this at home.
Every chapter includes practical examples of families applying the Bible to their current issues, such as backtalking or being mean to siblings. From the "Integrity Package" to the "The Family Challenge," they offer words to say, plans to implement, and ideas for working it out day by day.
With God's help, it is possible to train and direct a child's internal motivation-motivation that will serve them for the rest of their lives.
About the Authors:
Scott Turansky has been a pastor and missionary for more than 33 years and is an author of several books. In addition to pastoring full time, Scott also conducts parenting seminars on Saturdays around the United States (http://www.effectiveparenting.org/). He is the cofounder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting (www.biblicalparenting.org) and has co-authored four books.
Joanne Miller is a pediatric nurse with 26 years of experience and the cofounder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting. She is the coauthor of seven parenting books.
The concept of this book is amazing. I spent a long time working through the book, looking for ways to help our family end our craziness. Some things worked immediately and some are still in process. Some fell completely flat and seemed to make the craziness worse.
I wish there was more in the book about how to implement tactics and theories. There is a lot of anecdotal evidence and while that can give clues about how to make these practices work, there isn't really a lot about day to day choices and actions.
I find no fault with anything they're saying in the book. It emphasizes that it's necessary to cultivate a conscience in your children to get them internally motivated to do the things they need to do every day. Through moral and spiritual development, your child can be a productive member of society. It's just hard to figure out how to do this. My husband and I are re-reading it to see if I missed something in the practical application and to have a united front for the strategies.
I received a free copy of the book in exchange for a review on this blog and a commercial bookselling site. No additional compensation has been received and I was not required to write a positive review.