Book Review: The Anger Workbook

The Anger Workbook
By Les Carter and Frank Minirth
Thomas Nelson, Reprint 2012
English, 256 pgs

Description:
Don't Let Anger Take Control!

Most people stereotype anger by assuming that it always results in shouting, slamming fists, or throwing things. However, anger is not that one-dimensional.

In fact, all of the statements below represent feelings of anger:

• When I am displeased with someone I shut down any communication and withdraw.
• I get very tense inside as I tackle a demanding task.
• I feel frustrated when I see someone else having fewer struggles than I.
• There are times when my discouragement just makes me want to call it quits.
• I can be quite aggressive in my business pursuits or even when just playing a game.

We all deal with anger in our lives, whether it be in a subtle or violent manner. Being angry can involve such emotional expressions as frustration, irritability, annoyance, aggravation, blowing off steam, or fretting.

The good news is anger can be managed. In The Anger Workbook Les Carter, Ph.D., and Frank Minirth, M.D., offer a unique 13-step interactive program that will help you:

• Identify the best ways to handle anger
• Understand how pride, fear, loneliness, and inferiority feed your anger
• Uncover and eliminate the myths that perpetuate anger-"Letting go of my anger means I am conceding defeat" or "No one understand my unique problems."
• Identify learned patterns or relating, thinking, and behaving in your life that influence your anger.

Review:
This is a very intense and involved workbook. It is not something that you can sit down and just "breeze through". This requires you to spend time and effort toward learning about your own anger issues (and note, as in the description above, it's not just violent anger) and coming out a better person, better in touch with yourself and your feelings. The biggest thing you will learn is to discern what is actually causing your anger.

I've taught my sons that it's okay to be angry, it's not okay to act angry. This book will help you work through your anger issues in a methodical manner. It does rely on Biblical principles, but not to the point of it being "preachy".

The format of the book is easy to follow. It has 13 steps, each with its own chapter. The chapters are long. I think a week in each chapter is adequate and really allows you to work through each step. I like that there is a chapter regarding anger in children. Our 6 year old is struggling with learning how to control emotions and I found really good tips and information in that chapter to help him.

I received a copy of the book from BookSneeze in exchange for an honest review. No additional compensation has been received.

Book Review: Secrets of Intercessory Prayer

The Secrets of Intercessory Prayer
By Jack Hayford
Chosen Books, 2012
English, 176 pages

Description:

From the Back Cover

See Your Prayers Answered!

Here are the keys to unlocking effective intercessory prayer. With encouragement, powerful testimonies and keen biblical guidance, pastor and bestselling author Jack Hayford offers the insight you need to pray more effectively for God's grace, goodness and power in the lives of those you love. Pastor Jack also reveals how to

-answer God's divine invitation to partnership

-apply the basic promises of God to prayer

-launch a counterattack against the enemy

-help bring about victory in others' lives

-pray for someone you'd rather not pray for

-and more

Regardless of the situation, you can pray with rightful authority, perseverance and confidence. Stand in the gap for those you love and watch God's answers come.

Review:
I have no problems with what Pastor Hayford says in any part of this book. However, it's a pretty dry read. There are several parts where I feel like I have no idea what he was writing about and had to re-read it several times just to get through it. It's not a terribly difficult concept, but a very difficult book to read.

I felt like the book never really got to the point of the title. It tells you lots of things that are revealed in Scripture regarding prayer but doesn't give you really any tips or help to learn to pray yourself. I think the addition of a study/prayer guide would have been very helpful.

I received a copy of the book from Chosen Books in exchange for an honest review. No additional compensation has been received.

Book Review: Understanding Theology in 15 Minutes a Day

Understanding Theology in 15 Minutes a Day
By Daryl Aaron
Bethany House, 2012
English, 224 pgs

Description:

From the Back Cover

An Easy-to-Use Guide to Christian Theology

Theology can be intimidating, even overwhelming. Where do you start? How is it important to the Christian life? What are the key topics that you need to understand? How do you make time to study something so complex without going to Bible college or seminary?

In Understanding Theology in 15 Minutes a Day, professor and former pastor Daryl Aaron answers forty critical questions about the Christian faith. Arranged by topic, you can choose the areas that interest you or systematically read through the book. Each section is short and easy to understand. You'll come away with a deeper faith as you learn about the nature of God, heaven, the Bible, church, and even yourself.

Review:
This book is well organized and easy to read. It has 40 questions which Dr. Aaron answers with about 4-5 pages each. The topics range from angels to sin to baptism and so far beyond...

My husband is a pastor and has been able to use this both in sermon preparation as well as for his graduate level classes.

As far as one of the more difficult theological questions to explain, the Trinity, the explanation is clear and has explanations from the Nicene Creed as well as explanations of what some have tried to use to explain the Trinity. It's a hard concept but this explanation would be really helpful for someone who is just starting to learn about God and why Christians believe in the Trinity of God.

There is a question, What is Sin? that we have been finding useful in explaining the concept to our oldest son. The way Dr. Aaron writes is easy enough for even him to understand (he's 6) but complex enough for an adult to get "meat" out of it as well.

I received a review copy of the book from Bethany House in exchange for a review. No additional compensation has been received and I was not required to write a positive review.

Book Review: 90 Devotions for Kids

90 Devotions for Kids (Adventures in Odyssey)
Focus on the Family
Tyndale House, 2012
English, 258 pgs
Available October 1, 2012

Description:
Written by the Adventures in Odyssey team, 90 Devotions for Kids provides fun, Bible-based devotions for families and will encourage children to spend time learning more about God. There are no better mentors than Whit and the folks from Odyssey to partner with parents as they teach their children about God’s Word and make the truths of the Bible accessible to their kids.

AIO’s 90 Devotions for Kids includes thirteen weeks of devotions. Sidebars from Odyssey favorites Wooton, Whit, Connie, and Eugene provide friendly suggestions for life applications. Each week has an individual theme and will include an overview to introduce the theme, seven devotions that reference AIO dramas, and an activity, puzzle, or game to reinforce the core biblical truths taught during the week. Parents will find the tools they need to help start children on a path toward regular time alone with God, and families will be encouraged to spend time together as they share the daily readings.

From the Back Cover

Discover, Imagine, Grow!
Join Whit, Connie, Eugene, Wooton, and your other friends from the exciting world of Odyssey and DISCOVER tried-and-true biblical truths— like salvation, prayer, and forgiveness, and many others—that form the core values of Christianity.

Through historical stories, modern biography, Bible adventures, and key scenes from Adventures in Odyssey radio dramas, you’ll IMAGINE what it’s like to be a hero of the faith.

As you read each inspiring entry alone or with your family, you’ll be informed and challenged to GROW in your walk with God. Each devotion features a relevant Bible verse.

Special Features for Each Theme

• Creative Daily Challenge ideas to keep kids thinking about each lesson long after they’ve finished reading it
• Fun activities to involve the whole family in biblical learning and accountability
• Lessons drawn from favorite Adventures in Odyssey audio dramas
• Theme puzzles to reinforce the spiritual lessons in thought-provoking ways
• Whit and Wisdom—Friend and mentor John Avery Whittaker explains important Bible truths in easy-to-understand language
• Connie’s Corner—Connie relates spiritual applications to her own life
• Loquacious Learning with Eugene—Odyssey’s favorite intellectual shares important cultural and biblical facts
• Wandering with Wooton—Musings from the wacky postman on all things licorice and godly

Review:
I've been reading this for a month with my son and I've noticed a few things:
1. He has no frame of reference for who the characters are
2. He has been asking questions about the daily stories
3. He has been better behaved and seems to be understanding what we've been teaching

So, yes, I heartily recommend this book. It will be more effective if your kids have any idea who the Adventure in Odyssey characters are, but it will be just fine if they don't.

Each week (13 total) has a theme which the studies will follow and 7 daily lessons. None of them are long at all. Each week has a memory verse to study and learn as well as daily challenges which take the learning deeper than just what's printed in the book.

Every day has an aside from one of the characters and I've noticed that my son really likes Eugene because he loves learning facts and word meanings.

I'm really pleased with this book and will continue to use it and will probably start over at the beginning when we're done!

I received a copy of the book in exchange for a review and participation in a blog tour. No additional compensation has been received and I was not required to write a positive review.

Book Review: Grace

Grace: More than We Deserve, Greater than We Imagine
By Max Lucado
Thomas Nelson, 2012
English, 240pgs

Description:
Grace.

We talk as though we understand the term. The bank gives us a grace period. The seedy politician falls from grace. Musicians speak of a grace note. We describe an actress as gracious, a dancer as graceful. We use the word for hospitals, baby girls, kings, and premeal prayers. We talk as though we know what grace means.

But do we really understand it? Have we settled for wimpy grace? It politely occupies a phrase in a hymn, fits nicely on a church sign. Never causes trouble or demands a response. When asked, “Do you believe in grace?” who could say no?

Max Lucado asks a deeper question: Have you been changed by grace? Shaped by grace? Strengthened by grace? Emboldened by grace? Softened by grace? Snatched by the nape of your neck and shaken to your senses by grace?

God’s grace has a drenching about it. A wildness about it. A white-water, riptide, turn-you-upside-downness about it. Grace comes after you. It rewires you. From insecure to God secure. From regret riddled to better-because-of-it. From afraid to die to ready to fly.

Grace is the voice that calls us to change and then gives us the power to pull it off.

Let’s make certain grace gets you.

Review:
I am a long time fan of Max Lucado's books. This one does not disappoint. It's a little light on theology, but very strong on Scripture, anecdotes and personal application. The chapters are quick and easy to read and there is a separate study guide in the back of the book.

My only complaint about the book is that the study guide is in a separate area. It makes it a little difficult to have to flip around the pages. It would have made more sense to just put the study/application questions at the end of each chapter. Also, the study guide has zero room for writing in your answers, so if you're going to do the questions, you may want a journal handy.

The content however is superb. The stories, both from Max's life and history, are engaging and applicable. I can see where this would make a good group study book.

I received a copy of the book from BookSneeze in exchange for a review. I was not required to write a positive review and no additional compensation has been, or will be, received.

Book Review: Courageous Teens

Courageous Teens
By Michael Catt
B&H Books, 2012
English, 176 pgs
Available September 15, 2012


Description:
Catt brings fresh insight to “stories of people in the Bible who displayed great courage when it would have been easier to play it safe . . . (who) challenge me to keep moving forward. They demand that I examine my priorities and deal with anything that brings fear to my heart.”

 

Teen readers will be inspired to resolve to live for God as they learn more about Abraham, Moses, Nehemiah, Ruth, Daniel, and many more.

 

Best-selling youth market author Amy Parker arranges the heart-stirring material into four categories: Courageous Faith, Courageous Leadership, Courageous Priorities, and Courageous Influence. Discussion questions are also included at the end of each chapter.

 

Review:

This book hooked me in the introduction with the line "Unless the people of my generation take the time to equip you, our young people, with spiritual courage, the church is always just one generation from extinction."

There are 4 sections and 10 total chapters. Each chapter has questions at the end and each section has a recap page. These would be really useful in a group setting.

 

The first section "Courageous Faith" is about learning to trust God.  It uses a lot from the life of Abraham to teach. It encourages teens to find what motivates them and to find courage regarding facing a future that we don't always plan for our selves. It uses the examples of Esther and Joseph.

The second section "Courageous Leadership" is about a personal relationship with God, finding courage to lead and be a humble hero. It used Joshua and Moses as some of the examples. I like the inclusion of Gideon here. That's a study in learning to be humble and let God have all the glory!!

The third section "Courageous Priorities" is about doing what's right. This is probably the hardest lesson for teens. So many are pulled in so many directions. It's good to ground yourself in your faith and let that be your guide. Examples are Elijah, Martin Luther and Moses. The chapter on facing persecution is, I'm afraid, going to be more and more relevant to teens. The Biblical example is Stephen.

The final section "Courageous Influence" is about taking what's been learned so far and using it to reach others. I like that this section uses modern examples as well as Nehemiah and Paul. The chapter regarding mentoring has really touched my heart and given me a desire to reach out to the youth in our church.

This is a powerful book, with a powerful message. I cannot wait to hand it to one of the youth group leaders at church and suggest that this be the Spring Bible study. 

I received a copy of the book in exchange for a review. No additional compensation has been received and I was not required to write a positive review.

UNREAL Candy

Need a chocolate fix?
Tired of artificial ingredients and corn syrup?

You need to try UNREAL candies. They are made with only natural ingredients and I cannot taste a difference at all between them and the "regular" brands they're modeled after.

The chocolate caramel nougat bar is far and away my favorite. The chocolate is a bit firmer than what I'm used to on the national brand, but this tasted better and like a higher quality. I did notice a slight aftertaste, but it was not unpleasant. This variety has 5g fiber, 4g protein and lower sodium, sugar and fat content than it's national counterpart. I like that I can pronounce and recognize every ingredient on the label! Also, the chocolate didn't melt all over my fingers. I appreciate that!

My husband claimed the peanut butter cups and I wasn't able to try them, but he said he really liked them! They do contain the lowest amount of sugar of all the types, but the fat and calories is similar to the rest.

All in all, these are a win for us, but I can't see us paying $1.19 for each (my local CVS price). I will look for these to be on specials and hopefully some national coupons will be coming in the papers!

I received coupons for free and BOGO product from BzzAgent to enable me to test the product. No additional compensation has been received and I was not required to write a positive review.

Book Review: Twelve Unlikely Heroes

Twelve Unlikely Heroes: How God Commissioned Unexpected People in the Bible and What He Wants to Do with You
By John MacArthur
Thomas Nelson, 2012
English, 240 pgs

Description:
What kind of people does God use to accomplish His work?

Far from the children’s tales depicted in picture books and nursery rhymes, the men and women highlighted in the Bible were unnervingly real. They faltered. They struggled. And at times, they fell short. Yet God worked through them in surprising and incredible ways to accomplish His purposes. Scripture does not hide their weaknesses, caricature their strengths, or spin their stories as a display of human nobility. Instead, it describes these heroes of the faith with unflinching honesty and delivers an unexpected ending: “God is not ashamed to be called their God” (Hebrews 11:16).

In Twelve Unlikely Heroes, pastor and best-selling author John MacArthur uses his deep knowledge of the Bible and history to take us back to see these three-dimensional men and women in their own times and cultures. In doing so, it becomes clear how their dramatic stories apply to us today. People who might at first seem foreign quickly become familiar and unforgettable—particularly as they reveal the true Hero behind every witness, the power counterbalancing every weakness, “the Author and Finisher of our faith” (Hebrews 12:1).


Review:
I have not read the other books by this author which highlight "ordinary men" and "extraordinary women". So I cannot compare this book to past books. I can only comment on this book, by itself. 

I was pretty excited, at first, to read this book because of the "heroes" highlighted in the chapters. The order of people is: Enoch, Joseph, Miriam, Gideon and Samson, Jonathan, Jonah, Esther, John the Baptist, James and Mark and Onesimus. I was hoping for a fresh look at their lives and to learn something new that I hadn't studied before about them.

I was pretty disappointed. The chapters are basically a retelling of their life story. There are a few lines interspersed into the narrative about what makes their lives "heroic" and a very short synopsis at the end of each. I could have learned just as much from reading the extended chapter headings (Enoch: The Man Who Walked With God for example). 

 The point of the book is to show that everyone has a chance to be used by God. There isn't anything that can't be forgiven and there isn't anyone who can't be used by God. No matter what they've done or who they were before.

 Enoch had a life dedicated to God. Joseph lived out faith and forgiveness. Miriam was a courageous leader. Gideon and Samsom show that strength comes from God, not ourselves. And so on...

 Don't get me wrong, this is a well written book, I was just expecting more. There was probably more "meat" in the introduction and epilogue than in the chapters themselves.

I received a copy of the book in exchange for an honest review. No additional compensation has been received.

Book Review: Money Smart Family System

The Money Smart Family System
By Steve and Annette Economides
Thomas Nelson, 2012
English, 272 pgs


Description:
Is it possible to raise financially responsible kids of any age in a society filled with consumerism and entitlement?

New York Times best-selling authors Steve and Annette Economides raised their five kids while spending 77 percent less than the USDA predicted. And the money they did spend was also used to train their children to become financially independent. The MoneySmart Family System will show you how to teach your children to manage money and have a good attitude while they’re learning to earn, budget, and spend wisely.

Learn how to:
*Get the kids out the door for school with less stress.
*End the battle over clothing—forever
*Teach your children to be grateful and generous.
*Inspire your kids to help with chores as a member of a winning team.
*Prepare your kids for their first paying job.
*Help your kids pay for their own auto insurance, and even pay cash for their own cars.
*Employ strategies for debt-free college educations.
*Truly help your adult children when they want to move back home.
*Be prepared to deal with your adult children when they ask for bailouts.

With clear steps for children of every age, The MoneySmart Family System proves that it’s never too early, too late, or too hard to start learning financial responsibility.

Review:
This is something we're just starting to teach or 5 year old. We're working with him to understand saving, tithing and budgeting. To be honest, it's something we're learning ourselves as well.

This book has the goal of teaching children "to be independent, self-sufficient, and mature adults who can stand on their own two feet financially." I wish I'd had this training before college. Really... although it's never too late to start and learn.

This book describes how the authors taught their children to earn and manage their money. It also teaches how to set up a similar point system for earning. I think I really like this idea and am trying to set up a similar system for our children.

They teach what each child should do to earn their points and how to figure out what each point is worth at the end of the week. It's really a simple system. I'm just not sure about paying my kid to be good at school or to complete homework. Maybe that will work, maybe that will cause problems...I have to test it out to see.

They have a helpful chore chapter with appropriate chores broken down by age. Again, I'm not sure about paying for this. I think that learning through a consequence for not doing something is more effective. I'm willing to try though.

I like that the book deals with learning past the school ages. Really, as parents, we don't expect our children to stop asking for guidance or help or advise once they walk the graduation stage. I know I still look to my parents for ways to do things.

There are several chapters dealing with teaching kids how to manage the money they own. These are open to customizing for your particular family.

I received a copy of the book in exchange for a review. No additional compensation has been received and I was not required to write a positive review.

Review: Monopoly Zapped

Ah...money...property...jail!! The joys of Monopoly! I'm thrilled to get to review the newest version of Monopoly:

Monopoly zAPPed Edition

This has everything you know and love about Monopoly in a new, updated way. You'll notice in the picture above that there is NO MONEY! No little slips of paper to get lost. Instead, you use a FREE app (for iPhone, iPad or iPod Touch) to keep track of your money. See those little credit cards? You simply scan your card on the app for your transactions and the computer tallies for you. Much easier!

Also gone are the little blue and yellow Community Chest and Chance cards. These spaces are still there, but you play a little game on the app when you land on them. There were things like: who can plug the leaks faster (to see who pays for the plumber), air hockey (to see who gets the inheritance!), who can turn off the lights faster (paying the electric bill). There were also 1 person games like a puzzle and pushing clouds away from the solar panels (both were for paying utilities).

You still can go to jail (landing on space or rolling 3 sets of doubles), but you can break out!!! There is a game on the app where you toss Mr Monopoly over the wall to break out! You get two tries and then it's BACK TO YOUR CELL! Ha ha! We ended up paying when we went to jail just because that little game is pretty hard!

You start the game with $15 million (wow...) and you are given two property cards at random. Unlike the old board game, you have to purchase or auction the property when you land on it. (At least, we always played that you can not buy if you don't want to.) That made for pretty interesting game play. The auction allows you to bid on property and if you're good, you can get it for less than the amount if you'd bought it. We auctioned Boardwalk, just for fun, and I ended up buying it for $400K. What a bargain!!! (Ha ha...then next time around I landed on Park Place...woo hoo...you should have seen how fast those houses went up!!!)

The game took a couple of hours, but we were able to stop and come back thanks to the app having a "continue game" feature. We started out playing "nice" but then I got a little cutthroat and mortgaged property to put up houses...and it went quickly after that! Bwa ha! We were offering obscene amounts for that 3rd card you have to have so you can build!!

Here are some things I really like about the game:

• There is a way to "undo" something if you push on the wrong player, if you push the wrong button (you meant to buy, but hit sell on houses or something).
• The game will put reminders on the screen for faster game play
• There is an "idea" button that will help you out as you play
• Screen changes color based on your bank card so you can easily tell who needs to play
• Easy (on the iPad) to tap card to pay for property, taxes, fees, etc.

Here's a few frustrating things about the game:

• Couldn't get cards to read on iPhone app. 
• If you don't tap just right, you'll have to try again. Just slow down...(speaking to myself here)
• It took a bit of looking to figure out what to do if you needed to end your turn without taking action on a button (push the home).
• There is a "pay rent" button as well as a "pay player" button. Took a few turns to realize we were pushing the wrong one!

A word of caution...when you finish the game, if you go bankrupt (like my hubby did...ha ha!) you give your property to the person who made you go bankrupt (that was me...ha ha!). THEN...you take turns answering on screen who has which property, whether it's mortgaged or not, and whether it has buildings or not. We didn't realize that and cleared the board...oops...memory had to suffice.

Now...this pic says "Amy" and "Mom"...hubbs played as "Amy" since I was threatening to play against myself just to check out the game! I'm truly sorry I didn't get more screen shots for you, we were enjoying the game so much I forgot to take them!

I think it's fair to say I "whooped up" on him...houses on the dark blue properties are a killer! Bwa ha ha! We had a blast and can't wait to play again. This may be my new "hostess" gift for when we go to parties or something. I love it and want you to love it too!

I received a complimentary copy of the game in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own and will not receive additional compensation for the review.